Divorce Guide: September 5th, 2025
Divorce happens, and then we start fresh.
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A Letter from Olivia –
There’s a reason the family law world quietly refers to September as Divorce Month. After the hazy days of summer, the back-to-school energy hits, and with it comes clarity. September has become the moment when many people decide it’s time to take action on a divorce they’ve been considering for months—or even years.
Why September? A few reasons. For parents, the return to school means routines stabilize and children are out of the house during the day, making it a more practical time to start difficult conversations and paperwork. For others, the end of summer marks the end of “one more season” of trying to make things work, and the crispness of fall feels like the right moment to begin again. September also follows the financial lull of summer vacations and precedes the emotional weight of the holidays, making it a strategic window for transition.
And, like New Year’s in January, September has its own “fresh start” energy—there’s something about new notebooks, sharpened pencils, and the shift in season that pushes people toward big life changes.
At Fresh Starts, we see September as an opportunity to remind you: divorce isn’t just an ending, it’s a beginning. This month, we’ll be sharing tools, resources, and expert advice to help you navigate the process with dignity, clarity, and hope. If you’re stepping into your own fresh start this fall, you’re not alone.
We’ve got your back. Always.
xo Olivia
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🎧 Listen to this podcast episode:
From Stuck to Strong: EFT Tapping for Healing After Divorce with Relationship Coach Lizzy Gobst: We chatted with relationship expert and EFT tapping practitioner Lizzy Gobst about what really happens when divorce brings every emotion—grief, guilt, fear, relief, and hope—rushing to the surface. She explains how EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) works, using simple tapping on acupressure points to calm anxiety, shift patterns, and bring us back to ourselves. With stories from her clients and her own life, Lizzy shows how tapping can transform “stuck” moments into opportunities for clarity and healing. This episode is a grounding, hopeful reminder that we can hold conflicting feelings and still move forward with strength and presence.
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Positive Representations of Co-Parenting in TV and Movies—and What We Can Learn From Them: When divorce shows up in TV and movies, it’s often portrayed as ugly—shouting matches, custody battles, and children caught in the middle. But in reality, co-parenting after divorce can look very different. These portrayals matter. They remind us that divorce is not necessarily the end of family, but sometimes the beginning of a healthier, reimagined one. Here are some of the best examples of healthy co-parenting in media—and what we can take from them.
Why September Is a Popular Month to Consider Divorce: September is a month of transitions. The air shifts, routines reset, and suddenly we’re pulled into a season that feels like both an ending and a beginning. It’s no coincidence that September has quietly become one of the most common months for people to consider divorce. Lawyers call it “divorce season,” but for us, it’s more about fresh starts—about realizing that you’re allowed to want something different for your life.
💫 Affirmations for divorced humans:
I honor every version of myself that got me here, and I trust the version of me that is still becoming.
I deserve love, stability, and support—in every form they arrive.
My future is wide and generous, and I am strong enough to step into it with open hands.
🛠️ Divorce tools to make life a little easier:
Looking for support without the overwhelm? Our Experts and Fresh Starts offer free resources, groups, and workshops to help you through every stage of starting over. Come see what’s available—you don’t have to do this alone.
Remember, we’re so proud of you! We’re always here if you need us. You got this.
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